Monthly Archive for September, 2006

Great Sex

God’s design for great sex. We should save, strive for and protect God’s ideal. It is worth waiting for.

Commitment

  • Song of Solomon 3:6-11. Song of Solomon 2:16. Song of Solomon 7:10.

  • Sex is wonderful within a committed lifelong marriage. Committed even when I don’t feel like it.

  • In Solomon’s day the wedding ceremony was not about the money spent, but the commitment made.

Anticipation

  • Song of Solomon 4:12

  • They saved themselves until marriage, excitement of the coming union.

Preparation

  • Song of Solomon 4:1-7

  • Men and women are different

  • Solomon undresses/unwraps his bride

  • Men are microwaves, women are crock pots. — Gary Smalley
  • Love chooses to see perfection in her.

Unreserved Enjoyment

  • Song of Solomon 4:8-16. Song of Solomon 5:1.

  • Beyond fears, anxieties.

  • This is a safe/secure place.

  • There should be a commitment in marriage to the sexual fulfillment of your spouse. 1 Corinthians 7:1-7.

Communication

  • Talk about this area of your life with your spouse.

Further Study

Make it a point to enjoy this point of your life in the next couple of weeks. Thanks Jeff!

The Fires of Romance

Tape 2457.02 Boy Meets Girl…Now What? Series
Jeff Jones, Senior Pastor

Our deepest longings can only be found in God and not through marriage. Looking for them in marriage will only result is disaster.

Romantic Talk

Song of Solomon 1:3, 9. Song of Solomon 2:1-2. Song of Solomon 1:6.

We are insecure, wanting to be loved and accepted.

Create and environment that says “I Love You”.

Choose to see each other through a generous lens.

Romantic Touch

Pre-/non-sexual touching. Song of Solomon 2:6. Song of Solomon 1:2.

Romantic Tokens

Tangible gifts to show intangible feelings. Song of Solomon 1:10-11.

Romantic Time

Song of Solomon 2:10-15. Song of Solomon 1:4.

Carve out time for each other.

Create your own world/garden together.

How healthy is yours?

How do we build a universe of two?

  • Go on a regular date.
  • Plan an mini-honeymoon every year.

Bonus: Dating guide for singles

  1. Someone who knows Christ and is actively pursuing God. Missionary dating is not OK.
  2. Someone of character.
  3. Someone who is relatively functional.
  4. Someone who is commited to sexual purity.
  5. Someone you like and are attracted to.

Listen to The Fires of Romance with iTunes.

Jump Around

Jump Around, originally uploaded by ecrosstexas.

I’ve posted pictures from tonight’s Hedgcoxe PTA meeting/Eddie Coker Concert on Flickr.

It’s Showtime

It's Showtime

It is time for Apple to pull back the curtain and reveal all the new goodies we are going to want under our Christmas trees this year:

A big thanks to iLounge and MacRumors.com for the live coverage!

We will Never Forget

Five years ago today, 2,996 individuals lost their lives in the attack on America known as 9/11. One of those individuals was Michael Egan of Middletown, NJ.

Michael Egan

According to everything I have read, Michael was a light-hearted, yet deeply caring Englishman. He enjoyed singing “I Won’t Grow Up”, pranks, and English beers. Peter Pan, the insurance-man if you will.

Anna, my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your boys on this anniversary. It would be wise for me to emulate the loving devotion Michael had for you with his ever-faithful phone calls.

Michael worked at Aon Corp on the 104th floor of the World Trade Center and gave his life helping others escape from the south tower.

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